How to Build a Habit of Approaching Women

Approaching women is very challenging for many men. The unknowns are just too many and the risks are too great. So how can a man build a habit of approaching women and striking a conversation with them? In the world of dating this is a million dollar question and here are some million dollar ideas you can think about.

You need to accept rejection as part of life

Toronto dating coach Mars Blacc, who recently ran a dating bootcamp in nyc  says that, “Rejection is the essential building block of success.”  Not only is rejection part of life, it is necessary to achieve success later on. Without rejection you simply cannot understand what you are doing wrong and what you need to improve. Failures are building blocks of success and rejection is the same thing. You need to be rejected a little bit more before finally getting the “yes” that you wanted from the very beginning. So go out there and take your chances.

Courage is doing it anyway

Even the most confident guys and those that have approached women many times before still feel the tension and jitters every now and then. The nerves are normal. The secret is to develop the ability to control the nervousness and just get through with it. After the first few lines it will all flow naturally. Meeting women is acknowledging the fear but understanding the fact that fear is nothing compared to the rewards of talking to a gorgeous girl.

Overcome your ego

Cold-approaching is one of the most difficult things to do as a man. Approaching a hot random girl you do not know in the street is all about confronting your ego, your confidence issues. When you do not get past this wall, chances are you will have a hard time building a habit of walking up to a girl as often as want to. By just trusting yourself more and building up your self-worth above the pain and humiliation associated with rejection, you are on your way of being carefree about talking to a woman anywhere, anytime.

One thought on “How to Build a Habit of Approaching Women

  1. Anonymous says:

    Hi Elliot, I read your post with interest, especially the part where you wrote “the risks are too great.” I didn’t understand what you meant there. It seems like the only real risk a man faces when approaching a woman is rejection, either verbally or nonverbally. That doesn’t seem like much to me, especially considering the risk a woman takes in responding to a man who approaches her. It is estimated that of all women who were the victims of homicide globally, almost half were killed by intimate partners or family members, compared to less than six per cent of men killed in the same year. Maybe that’s something that could help you next time you want to approach a woman and are afraid of the risks: She has a lot more to lose than you.

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